When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all.
It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital. He died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was going to face her husband.When the distraught father came to the hospital land saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.
QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?
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ANSWER :
The husband just said "I am with you Darling".The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed.
She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would bemuch fewer problems in the world.
This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.
aku bukannya nak citer pasal baby nih, tapi aku nak citer pasal rasa sedih aku arini... uwa!!! akus edih sesangat.. aku nak transfer, tapi tak sangka gini jadinya....aku macam ada krisis dengan housemate aku, then aku kena settle all alone.... sedih... rasanya amcam tak de langsung mmemori bahagia kat perak nih.. semuanya menyedihkan.. lebih tepat... menyakitkan ati... aku harap sangat, yg bila aku dah pindah, semua masalah settle.. at least kalo tak dapat selesaikan semua, sikit pun jadilah....
aku risau memikirkan pasal office..mana nak clearkan office, mana plak nak pindah umah... sume yg housemate aku bleh cakap.. "ko tak pe, ko ada BANYAK DUIT.." uwa.. sume problem bleh selesai dengan ada duit ke????? la nih aku kena settle pasal
1. call en ghazali-tanya pasal umah
2. tanya kak raz, cz dia kena pindahkan barang2 ke umah lain cz diorg nak pindah
3. kena pindahkan barang-barang kat opis.. baru je call kak siti, mintak alamat dia coz aku nak adresskan barang2 aku kat dia b4 aku tau kat manalah lembaga peperiksaan tue...
4.sapa nak amik aku masa pindah nih?? kalo sapa2 nak amik aku pun, aku kena sediakan atleast RM500 utk semua belanja.. YA ALLAH, banyaknya duit kena kuarkan...
5. duit deposit aku bakal burn... rm520/3 utk depo umah, plus rm100/2 depo astro n plus lagi rm 200/3 utk depo api air.. waaa... sedihnya...... yg lagi sedih, cz housemate aku macam nak berpatah arang dengan aku... dari dia bear cost berdua, baiklah kalo semua org pun kena burn gak.... sedih lagi cz dia rasa aku banayk duit, so aku tak heran dengan duits ebanyak tue...
5. kat mana aku nak dok bila kije kat putrajaya? aku nak dok umah kat kg, sapa nak hantar aku g banting? kalo dulu, at least ada bapak anto g umah nenek (sob sob), la nih dah tak de sapa... nak dok umah kak mi kot?? aku cuma takut kalo aku kena stay back lelama kat opis baru jer.. mana ada bas lagi... nani ajak dok dengan dia kat puchong perdana, tapi aku macam keberatan cz aku takut famili marah kalo aku dok luar... macamna nih??
6.pending work kat sini?? hampir kepada tiada, tapi aku rasa bersalah cz kalo ikut plan, kitorng nak outstation kat grik minggu nih... macamano nih??
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